BRCA+ and Mastectomy Must-Haves

Hey Family, Friends, and Fellow Breasties!

With our first two surgeries (preventative double mastectomy and exchange surgery) behind us, we have put together a list of items we recommend purchasing before you undergo a mastectomy. The items listed under post-surgery are things doctors and fellow Breasties have recommended for post-op healing along with things we found necessary for recovery. Everyone's healing process is different so things we may LOVE for recovery you or your loved one might end up not liking or using.

The bottom half of this post is dedicated to friends and family members of Breasties who want to show support for their loved one going through this big life change. This list was created from things we were grateful to have received (thanks everyone!!) and some other other ideas we think would be nice to show your loved one you care and support them .

We hope this is helpful!

xxx Ivy & Eve

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Post-Surgery Must-Haves:

What to bring with you to the hospital:

  • Car seatbelt pillow for the ride home post-surgery

  • Post-surgery pillow

  • Post-surgery bra - Talk to your doctors beforehand to see if they provide any. Ours gave us two, one we wore out of the hospital, and an extra to take home. If you need to buy your own, SIZE UP if your doctor doesn’t want you to wear compression.

  • Throat lozenges - (helps with dry or sore throat from anesthesia)

  • Compression socks

  • Lip balm - We suggest Aquaphor, plus it can go on any dry skin after surgery

  • Button up pajamas and loose drawstring bottoms for wearing in the hospital recovery

  • Slippers

  • Soft washable blanket (having a nice non-hospital blanket made our 4 days in the hospital feel less sterile and more cozy)

  • Toiletries

  • Books and/or magazines 

  • Charging cords

  • Headphones/Book

Have ready at home:

  • Body wipes 

  • Dry Shampoo

  • Wedge or U-shaped pregnancy pillow - great if you are recovering in a bed

  • Recliner chair - if you don’t want to sleep in a bed for recovery

  • Cute water cup with straw for easy hydration!

  • TV tray - to fit on your lap for meals

  • Zip up hoodies

  • Button-up shirts

  • Phone charger- the longer the cord the better!

  • Drain pocket belt and/or Shirts/Bra/Robes that come with drain pockets

  • Sleep eye mask (this was very nice to have)

  • Extra post-surgery bras for when you need to wash one

Care package gift ideas & ways to support from near and far:

  • Boob everything! Boob mugs, shirts, cards, jewelry

  • Comfy button-up sweaters, pajamas, and tops

  • Nice smelling candles - you can never have too many!

  • Flowers

  • Spa day gift card - pre-surgery massage or facial!

  • Mani/pedi for before or after surgery (they may not be allowed to get nail polish before surgery but a nice nail buff/cleanup is always nice!)

  • Self-Care Products - sheet masks, under-eye masks, lipgloss, etc.

  • Dry Bar gift card - great for the week after surgery when they may not be allowed to shower or be able to style their own hair

  • Doordash/Grub Hub/Uber Eats etc. - So they can order meals without having to cook

  • Cozy socks

  • Cute slippers - easy to slide on

  • Soft blankets

  • Heartfelt note or card

  • Frozen meal delivery - Great for those who don’t have someone home to cook meals for them. 

  • Sleep eye mask

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